Self-Care Is Not Selfish!

Cholet K. Josue, MD
2 min readSep 25, 2023

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Have you ever felt guilty about taking time for yourself? Don’t be! It’s time to dispel the myth that self-care is selfish. Self-care is really about finding a balance between taking care of yourself and taking care of others. And it’s not selfish, it’s necessary for survival.

Do you ever feel like you’re constantly giving to others — your family, friends, and community? Does life feel a bit unbalanced?

Self-care allows you to recharge, replenish your energy, and prevent burnout. When you’re stressed, exhausted, or overwhelmed, you’re more likely to make poor decisions and to experience health problems, but when you find your balance, you’re getter able to show up fully for yourself and for others. You’re also more likely to be kind and compassionate — not to mention productive and successful too.

Self-care isn’t selfish, it’s an act of love that benefits both you and those around you. And it’s essential for self-empowerment, because it gives you the space you need to build confidence and resilience. It’s a powerful declaration that you value yourself, your worth, and your right to prioritize your needs. You also send an important message to those who look up to you: that everyone is worthy of love, respect, and care.

And don’t forget:

• Self-care is not about being perfect. It is about doing your best to take care of yourself, even when you don’t feel like it. Even small acts of self-care can make a big difference.
• There is no one-size-fits-all approach to self-care. Experiment until you find what works best for you.
• Be kind to yourself. Don’t beat yourself up if you don’t always get it right. Just keep trying.
• Don’t be afraid to ask for help. If you are struggling to take care of yourself, reach out to a friend, family member, or therapist.

Remember, self-care isn’t selfish — it’s an important part of your life. Prioritize yourself, and watch as your life blossoms with joy, fulfillment, and an abundance of love. You are worth it!

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